Children’s Book Blog

This is an occasional article by Beth Melo, a Southborough resident, and mother of two.

Princesses, Ponies, & Pink

by kim on April 26, 2012

Books for the Princess in the House

A Blog by Beth Melo

Don’t judge a book by it’s cover. . . unless you’re a girly girl.  Then books covered with pink sparkles,  pictures of fairies, rainbow ponies, or pretty princesses are irresistible.  Unfortunately for parents, frequent reading of these often trite or sickeningly sweet books can lead to the urge to hang yourself with a pink feather boa. 

While I enjoy reading books that teach about girl power (like Cornelia Funke’s Princess Knight) I also want to let my daughter enjoy her frillier side.  So how can we cater to the princess in the house without going crazy?  The best strategy is to find girly books that are readable.  Here are my favorites that either by story or illustration should also hopefully capture little girls’ affection:

Princesses next door:

  • Books about ordinary girls who “believe” they are really princesses - Princess Penelope by Todd Mack,  The Very Fairy Princess by Julie Edwards and Emma Walton, and I am Really a Princess by Carol Diggory Shields.  All three are entertaining.
  • Queen of France by Tim Wadham is a cute story about a girl who spends the day pretending to be a queen only to decide she’d rather be her parents’ girl.
  • Princess Super Kitty by Antoinette Portis follows a girl as she plays dress up, continually embellishing her imagined persona
  • Do Princesses Wear Hiking Boots? and the related series by Carmela LaVigna Coyle is inspired by the author’s own daughter asking said question.  These books answer a girl’s questions as family encourages her to enjoy life as a princess but without prissy constraints.
  • Lottie Paris Lives Here by Angela Johnson brings a little fashionista to life, her fun, mischief, timeouts and all.
  • Celestine, Drama Queen by Penny Ives is about a diva duckling who sees life from the perspective that she is a star.
  • Louise the Big Cheese series by Elise Primavera.  Louise longs to be an important diva, but is really just an ordinary girl next door.  I just discovered these and have only read the original and Ooh La La Charm School to date.  Both were cute and my children loved them.  Both also included a nice message about real friendship.   (They are a bit long for picture books, so probably more appropriate for children four or older.)
  • Many of Jane O’Connor’s Fancy Nancy picture books:  Her adoration of all things fancy will be appreciated by most girls.  The fact that she has an affinity to long, fancy words adds an educational element.  But mostly, I just enjoy her melodramatic personality.  My favorites are  the original, Posh Puppy, Bonjour Butterfly, and Poet Extraordinaire!  (Warning:  the popularity of the cute picture books has led to a spate of less well edited beginner books.  These supposedly “level 1” books seem far too difficult for most beginning readers.  They aren’t necessarily bad – at least not the ones I’ve read —but they aren’t nearly as good as the less frequently published picture books.  And recently I’ve seen covers of holiday books “based on the creation” – in other words, not by the author.)

 

Real Princesses:

  • Princess Bess Gets Dressed by Margery Cuyler is a simple book about a happy princess enjoying her numerous fancy outfits, but none as much as when she gets to relax in her bedroom in her underwear.
  • Princess Peepers by Pam Calvert is a story about a girl who lets her peers convince her she looks weird wearing her glasses.  Mothers who don’t like happy endings to be about riding off into the sunset with a prince may disapprove of this book.  But it offers an opportunity to talk about catty behavior/emotional bullying (something all girls will inevitably encounter whether as victims, perpetrators, or likely a little of both.)
  • The Princess Who Had Almost Everything by Mirielle Levert tells about a completely spoiled princess who is unhappy with everything, until someone teaches her to make her own fun.

Fairies:

  • The Dreamtime Fairies by Jane Simmons follows the bedtime story a girl weaves (using their stuffed animals as characters) to help her little brother not be afraid of the dark.  I’m generally biased toward sweet older sister/younger brother stories. 
  • The Dollhouse Fairy by Jane Ray tells the story of a girl who’s dollhouse is temporarily inhabited by a impish fairy, just when she needs the distraction
  • The truth is I’m not a fan of most fairy books.  I could only find one more to recommend and half-heartedly at that.  A fairy went a-marketing by Rose Fyleman has very little text, and no real story.  But the illustrations are beautiful and there is nothing annoying in it.  (If anyone has another fairy book to recommend, I’d love to hear about it, as would my daughter.)

Pretty in Pink:

  • The Pink Party by Maryann Macomber is about two friends who love pink, one of who turns a bit green with envy.  It is a good opportunity to discuss jealousy and what friendship means.
  • Pinkalicious by Victoria Kann.  I enjoyed this story about a girl who learns her lesson after eating too many cupcakes turns her pink.  (That doesn’t mean I like the popular sequels, sorry.)
  • Every Cowgirl Needs a Horse by Rebecca Janni is about a little girl who knows she’s a cowgirl and expects the necessary pony.  (This story has nothing to do with pink – but it is the color that dominates the cover and illustrations.)
  • Mimi and Lulu by Charise Mericle Harper follows pink and purple loving friends as they fight and make up over the course of through three fun short stories within one playdate.
  • Priscilla and the Pink Planet by Nathaniel Hobbie is about a girl who (shockingly) is sick of pink, the color of everything on her planet.  She heads out in search of another color.

 

If you have any questions for me, feel free to e-mail becmelo@yahoo.com.  If you have any suggestions for other parents, you can post a comment below.

 

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April is Poetry Month

by kim on March 31, 2012

Children’s poetry for the non-poetry-lover-parent

A blog by Beth Melo

I have a shameful confession to make: I don’t love poetry.  Don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying I hate it.  I appreciate some of it.  (I even wrote some back in the day, published in Sachem, Algonquin’s literary magazine.)  I just never LOVED it.  And much of it bores me.  (I’m actually guilty of hiding an old, archaic Mother Goose book we had so I wouldn’t have to read from it anymore.  Bad Mommy!) 

This makes it hard for me to teach poetry appreciation to my children.  But I want to try.  So, I set about to find poems that my children and I could enjoy together.  And now, in honor of poetry month in April, I will share my best finds with you.

  • My favorite for young children is Here’s A Little Poem , edited by Jane Yolen.  This is the only children’s poetry collection that I really loved.  It has a wonderful mix of cute, funny, sweet, and sensory poems to share with little ones.   
  • My second favorite poetry collection is Out and About  by Shirley Hughes. A young girl (with baby brother) experiences the elements through all four seasons.  She teaches children to enjoy nature as she exults in mud, water, sand, and wind.  

Good for the very young:

  • I’m a fan of Margaret Wise Brown books.  Her poetry collection Under the Sun and the Moon, illustrated by Tom Leonard is perfect for that age.
  • Busy in the Garden by George Shannon is also a sweet collection for the very young.
  • I’m a fan of the original Winnie the Pooh books.  As such, I want to like the A.A. Milne collections more than I actually do as a whole.  But there are quiet a few cute/sweet ones among them, especially in Now We are Six.  I prefer the Christopher Robin poems such as “Binker”, “Us Two”, and “Forgiven”, to the poems about knights and such.

Good for preschool and older:      

  • My children enjoyed the poems about forests and animals in A Whiff of Pine, a Hint of Skunk .
  • Curious Critters by David FitzSimmons is a visually engaging book of poetry written by a photographer.  His beautiful photographs held my children’s attention to the related poems about each creature.  I did also enjoy the poetry in its own right as he gave a unique voice to each animal.
  • Edward Lear’s The Duck and the Kangaroo.  I’m probably a heretic for saying that I don’t love all of his poetry.  I feel like I’m missing something when reading most of it (perhaps a silly gene).  But I really get a kick out of this particular poem of his and it can be found as its own book.  We enjoyed the version illustrated by Jane Wattenberg.
  • Dinothesaurus by Douglas Florian was a big hit with my son.
  • My six year old daughter loved Jane O’Connor’s Fancy Nancy Poet Extraordinaire!  This isn’t a poetry book per se.  It’s a story about a girl with a passion for poetry who shares her favorite poems and some written by her friends and herself.  Her enthusiasm is contagious. (This book isn’t in the Southborough Library collection but can be requested through interlibrary loan.)

Special Mention: 

  • Not technically poetry, my children love Alan Katz’ zany song books.  He takes popular well known tunes (like “Take Me Out to the Ballgame”) and turn them on their heads with poems that will make most preschoolers and young school kids laugh.  My children love I’m Still Here in the Bathtub and Too Much Kissing.  (Months after reading the first, my kids surprised me by gleefully reciting the final verse of the title song when I went to pull them from the tub the other night.)  The challenge for me is trying to capture the original tune in my head to read some of these.  But even if you can’t get the tune right, I’m sure your kids will appreciate the humor.

I wish you have luck finding poetry that you enjoy with your children.  As always, if you have any questions for me, feel free to e-mail becmelo@yahoo.com.  If you have any suggestions for other parents, you can post a comment below.

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Good Choices for Beginning Readers

by kim on February 18, 2012

From ABCs to Learning to Read

A Blog by Beth Melo

I’m sure that it’s no coincidence with my family’s love of reading, that my daughter was an early beginner reader.  I found it to be a long journey in many ways, but with sudden surges forward that surprised me.  And now my son is at the early stages of his journey.  In working on it with him, I’ve been to reviewing the steps I took with her.

For those of you working on it with your own children, I want to share my experience with you. I’m not a teacher or literacy expert.  My advice, as usual, is geared toward using books that both parents and children enjoy together.   I’d also like to encourage people to post their own favorite beginner reading books or tools in the comments.

Pre-Reading Prep:

1.  Engaging them in the process – I like to read books that encourage their participation:

  • The Benchmark Rebus series by Dana Meachen Rau allow children to translate the pictures in the text.  Since the rest of the text is very short, repetitive and basic, it’s also a good way to help them start recognizing sight words.
  • Shirley Neitzel also has series of rebus books, with a twist.  The formula builds a growing list (with embedded rebuses) that repeats items from previous pages as it grows.  One of my favorites is Our Class Took a Trip to the Zoo.
  • Books with obvious rhyming words.  Whenever I read a book that had obvious rhymes, I let them fill in the blanks.  For example, I love the rhyming books by Lynley Dodd and Patricia Hubbell, and some of the classic Random House  I Can Read It All By Myself and Bright and Early series.  There are also a few books that seem written just for this purpose:

 

 2.  Phonics – before they can read, obviously recognizing the sounds letters make is an important step.  A slew of cute baby books that cover ABCs and their sounds.  As they get older, they may also enjoy Rosemary Wells’ Letters and Sounds and Ready to Read.  These are part of her Get Set for Kindergarten series, so they follow a Kindergarten class through pre-reading learning activities in school.  What makes it more entertaining is that it uses characters familiar to children who have read Wells’ other books about Mrs. Jenkins class with Yoko, Timothy, Nora and Charles.

 (I also have to confess that I believe PBS’ show Word World has been wonderful for my children in this area.  It is my favorite TV show for them.  They laugh all through it and really do seem to learn at the same time.)

3.  Teaching lowercase letters.  My son knows phonics well enough to start trying to read.  Unfortunately, the lowercase letters that he doesn’t know as well as I thought are tripping him up.  (I haven’t found any early readers in all caps.)  I had the same problem with my daughter, but forgot until I ran into it again with him.  If you are reviewing lowercase letters for preschool or kindergarten children, here are some books that can make it fun.

  • Books that use lowercase letters as main characters:
    • Chicka Chicka Boom Boom by Bill Martin is a classic that focuses on lowercase letters.  Kids love to memorize the rhyming text and chant along.
    • Judy Sierra’s Sleepy Little Alphabet: a bedtime story from Alphabet Town is a cute story about the little letters’ bedtime antics.
    • Audrey Wood’s Alphabet Adventure and Alphabet Mystery aren’t quite as good here, since they only focus on a few letters.  But they are two more opportunities to talk about the letters in a fun way.
    • Some authors or publishers have series books that teach about other subjects of interest to children, and just happen to teach the alphabet, too.  (For the purpose of teaching lower case, I like to cover the capital with my thumb while reviewing these.) Ones that include lowercase letters and my family has enjoyed: 
      •  Our favorite of Jerry Pallotta’s is The Construction Alphabet Book.  (For girlier choices, he also has a flower one and, under Co-Author Brian Cassie, a butterfly one – neither of which we’ve tried.)
      • Sleeping Bear Press has an extensive series including  Z is for Zookeeper, R is for Race, and girlier options, too.  Some seem written for older children who want to learn extensively about the subject matter.  When the text is too long, I just quote the interesting highlights.

 

4.  Words by Sight — I read some good advice when I was trying to learn about how to encourage my daughter’s reading skills (I would footnote the reference, but don’t remember what book it was in!)  The gist was not to get too focused on phonics.  There are so many confusing rules and exceptions.  When you read, you don’t sound out words, you recognize them.  That is how you should teach your children. 

When my daughter’s preschool teachers encouraged us to start teaching her sight words, I did a lot of pointing out basic words in simple picture books I was reading (“the”, “in”, “to”, “with”, etc.).  Then we moved to a chart and stickers that she could show off to her grandparents.  This was a long, repetitive process.

Children have different interest levels.  I wouldn’t push your children too hard, just at the level they enjoy challenging themselves and try to keep it fun.  And use whatever tools or motivations work for them.  Whenever my daughter’s interest waned, I immediately backed off.  That meant that sometimes, after we seemed to make great progress, a month went by before she was ready to try again.  Often ground was lost and she had to relearn words she had seemed to know well.  That was OK.

Early Reading:  Once I was ready to try some early reader books I discovered (and still struggle with) that each publisher seems to have wildly different views on what pre-, 1st, 2nd, and 3rd level readers are.  I’ve found pre and 1st level books by one publisher that are more difficult than a 3rd level from another.  So to help, I’ve listed some of my favorites by progressing stage (as I define them):

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              1. Just teaching them to try to sound out the words themselves – one to a couple per page:

  • Flip-A-Word books — Books like Crab Cab and Pig Wig are silly and strange.  But once your child has a grasp of basic consonant sounds, the die-cut pages emphasize recurring ending sounds, so they only need to work out the changing phonics at the front of the word.
  • The Sounds Like Reading series by Brian Cleary — Each book focuses on a segment of phonics.  Each double page spread uses one rhyming sound.  There is a short list of pictured rhyming words.  On the facing page, a picture incorporates the words and a few basic sight words into a silly sentence.   As the book progresses, sentences become harder. It’s great for building confidence while gradually challenging children to stretch themselves.
  • BOB books — Starting with Set 1 Beginning Readers, these are very simple and repetitive, starting with one word on a page and progressing to a few repeated words together on one page and only a few pages per book.  The simplicity makes it easier for first readers to accomplish reading a whole book by themselves.  But books also come in a box set, so children who have a hunger for more can read multiple books in a sitting.  Sets also progress in levels.  (Personally, I don’t get the value of the “pre-reader set” that are longer in text and therefore meant to be read to your children.)
  • We Both Read Level K  – These alternate pages with short sentences for parents and one or two words for the child.  I found this helped to deal with the problem that often my children prefer to be read to.  But they do like to show off their skills as long as it doesn’t take too much effort.  (There are only a couple at this level of reading skill, then more for what they describe as level 1 & 2.)
  • Kathryn Heling’s Mouse books that I mentioned earlier are good for cooperative reading, too.

 

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                             2. Ready to read about one short, simple sentence per page:

  • Phil Roxbee Cox’s Usborne Phonics Readers are cute and simple with titles like Shark in the Park.
  • Children’s Press Rookie Reader series – We especially enjoy Charnon Simon’s books about an enthusiastic dog, starting with Guard the House, Sam!
  • Usborne Very First Reading Series (books 1 – 7)  – Another example of books with the read together concept.  This series starts with alternating readers and only short sentences for the child.  As the books progress, the sentences get longer and the format changes to children reading by themselves.  A section at the end of each book makes a game of testing your child’s comprehension of the book just read.
  • Brand New Readers sets come in a box.  They are similar to the Bob books, but I believe are a bit more advanced than the 1st level Bob books, which are also have sets at this level.
  • Mo Willem’s beginner readers are wonderful.  The cat books like Time to Sleep, Sheep the Sheep! are great to start, followed by Elephant and Piggie books.
  • Cute picture books are good as a tool here too.  Whenever I read a picture book that had clear font and simple sentences, I encouraged my daughter to read it, or part of it.  The books I previously recommended for toddlers are also good for beginning readers.  (Some are great for this stage and others for the next.)  (http://www.southboroughlib.org/fun-reading-for-toddlers/)
  • Picture books by Jan Thomas are also fun and simple.  Like Willems, I believe Thomas’ humor makes kids eager to read what happens next.  Let’s Count Goats, What Will Fat Cat Sit On?, and Is Everyone Ready for Fun? are good examples.

 

                                                                                                                                                                                          3. Ready to read a couple of sentences per page:

  • Mary Ann Hoberman’s You Read to Me, I’ll Read to You series – children and parents go back and forth reading lines in the book based on a color code.  While technically, there are a lot of sentences on a page, each alternating line is like a new page and each double page spread is like its own book, complete with several pictures on each page.  These books generally start out with short lines and progress to multiple sentence lines by the end of the book.
  • Usborne Very First Reading Series (books 8-15)  – Unlike the early books in the series, children read these by themselves.  These still include fun reading comprehension tests at end of book.
  • Go Diego Go!   phonics series – These books are great for fans of the show.

Once your child has mastered this stage, I think it’s best to engage their help to find harder books to read. They know how much they want to push themselves better than we do sometimes.  And having them search the beginner reader shelves is empowering.

Finally, to read more on this subject, the library’s Children’s Department has books in the parenting section (written by actual experts).  If you have any questions for me, feel free to e-mail becmelo@yahoo.com.  If you have any suggestions for other parents, you can post a comment below.

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All About Science and Nature

January 24, 2012

Why? Why? Why?:  Discovering the World Through Books A Blog by Beth Melo In past blogs, I focused on fun stories to read to young children.   But there is another large category of books my children enjoy – nature and science.   Books can be a fun way to learn about the world.  It starts with [...]

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Christmas Book Recommendations for Children

December 16, 2011

‘Tis the Season to Read Jolly: Christmas Books for Young Children A Blog by Beth Melo I love Christmas time.  Having kids makes it even better since it gives me the excuse to be a kid at heart myself.  Among all the other juvenile joys of the season, I get to read lots of Christmas [...]

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Books for Thanksgiving

November 10, 2011

Time to Gobble A Blog by Beth Melo I personally find Thanksgiving to be one of the tougher holidays to explain to young children.  (Perhaps if a magical turkey brought them candy Thanksgiving morning it would be easier.  But, “thankfully” it doesn’t, since the last thing our house needs right now is more candy.) Fortunately, [...]

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Fun Books for Preschoolers

November 2, 2011

Keep Coming Back for More:  A Fun Book Series Reading List for Preschoolers A blog by Beth Melo Last time, I focused on books to making toddlers smile.  This time, I want to make preschoolers laugh.  As I stated in my previous contribution:  I think the key to encouraging reading in children is enjoying it [...]

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